Leadership
August 19, 2025
In business, the line between winners and losers is rarely about talent alone. It comes down to one thing that consistently sets high performers apart: their ability to endure discomfort and keep pushing forward.
We often hear the saying, “the rich get richer and the winners keep winning.” That cycle does not happen by accident. It happens because winners develop a higher pain threshold than everyone else around them.
Take Jensen Huang, CEO of NVIDIA, as an example. He is known for working seven days a week and maintaining a level of obsession that most people simply cannot match. But this type of obsession is not something you are born with. It is built.
Obsession grows by showing up every single day and collecting small wins. Think of it like a rat nibbling on cheese or a struggling golfer managing to shoot par on the final hole. Those small victories create a powerful dopamine hit, the mental fuel that keeps you coming back day after day, year after year.
The same principles apply when exhaustion sets in. Winners do not stop when they feel tired; they lean into the discomfort. Every time you continue working despite how you feel, you are building a muscle. That muscle is your tolerance for stress and fatigue. Over time, it becomes second nature. When your body signals it is time to slow down, your mind responds by pushing harder.
This is the difference between dabblers and dominators. The former quit when it hurts. The latter build resilience until discomfort becomes their competitive edge.
Reaching your biggest goals does not come with balance or ease. If you want to create the life you have imagined, you must be willing to do what most people will not:
Those who are willing to endure will always outlast those who only work when it is convenient. Winners win because they have trained themselves to keep going long after others have stopped.